Your confusion is a little bit justified because my online time is really different to the other performers. What I’m offering is to discuss the sexual topic that you’re most interested in; this could be relationships, sexuality, sexual technique – whatever you like. We can have a private chat where we share more intimate things and go deeper into your chosen topic.

Sometimes I’m giving you tips on how to become more sensitive and enjoy intense orgasms, or showing penis massage techniques or how to massage a woman’s breasts the way she’ll never forget. We can discuss whatever sexual and life topic you want to look at more closely and make clearer.

I’m here especially for those of you who are interested in “something more” and if I say “more” I mean another step, another way to experience life and sex. It’s about what you’re bringing to the session from within you. I’m waiting for your input and we can follow any path you feel compelled to walk down. I have very nice connection with a few of you already, thanks to the time we spend together privately – it’s very precious.

There is no obvious way to name or categorise this session or our meeting because it’s not only psychotherapy, or just sharing intimacy, or only friendly chat – it’s a cocktail of those three main attributes. And all three are based on mutual respect and trust.

We have many options for the meeting. The usual session in the temple in Sitges takes two or three hours and there is reason for that. We need the time to first get relaxed and build our connection. I don’t want you to buy credits for a two hour online session, but just please don’t expect the magic to happen in just ten minutes. I suggest at least 20 minutes, ideally longer.

Remember everything depends on your real intention. You can drink instant coffee in two minutes. Or you can go to a special Italian cafe to have a whole experience: the atmosphere, the smell and the taste of real coffee. And it likely takes longer than two minutes.

And someone will drink instant coffee all their life and never try to invest the time into the new experience of real coffee, and this is fine also. Life is the question of our choice.

Everyone is invited on free chat to get a clearer idea about me and than you can schedule your private session.

And if I’m free at that moment and you’re also ready, then that’s perfect; we can get started right away.

I was teenager when I found this book in my mother’s cabinet in between clothes. And I never forget how they mentioned that before mouthwash and chewing gum existed people used fresh mint leaves to freshen the mouth.

And that’s what I want to closer examine: our hygiene ritual for the preparation our body! I believe this ritual deserves more attention than five minutes in the bathroom. Because how prepared we are when meet our lover shows how much we care about the quality of that meeting.

I don’t want to sound like your mother, reminding you to wash behind your ears. But I have my own experience with lovers, some of which had better awareness of hygiene than others! In fact, some had no idea.

So I want to bring some light to this topic. And this is a message for both genders: HYGIENE REALLY MATTERS!

Here are a few routines that are good to include before potential sexual play:

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Mouths and breath – Because fluent breathing is important, as you know already, you want to be able to relax the mouth and jaw and open them whenever you feel you need to. Relaxed mouths = relaxed pelvis. And of course, there is kissing. It’s very nice when you can breathe to each other’s faces and feel fresh and comfortable with that. Use everything that is necessary for you to get to this point of fresh and juicy breath that calls to your lover, ‘kiss me!’

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Shaving intimate parts – Personally, I think these days we put to much attention on shaving and following fashion to be perfect and stylish.
I think in the first place it should be how we feel, not how the partner likes it; in the end it’s your body and your hair. Imagine two people shaved two days ago playing and making love, it’s like Velcro. The skin is over sensitive and soft friction is impossible.

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Perfume and deodorant or having a refreshing shower – Some people prefer fragrance or perfume rather than smelling the person who is underneath. I find this is a shame because a natural smell can stimulate us much stronger than any perfume. I prefer to be able smell the real fragrance of the man I’m sharing those moments with (of course, after he and I took a shower), because body odor can make us very excited or very frustrated. It depends on the type of odor. It’s like a moment of truth!
If you’re going to experiment with focusing on scent I promise it’s going to give you a new dimension. And I would say it’s one of the indicators that show how compatible we are on a sexual level.

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Cleansing of intimate parts – You may feel like that’s clear, I just want to add a little detail. The vagina has an acid pH level, which is why women usually use special intimate gel, as using normal soap can be a real disaster for her the next day. The same is valid for men; normal soap can dry up the sensitive skin or cause irritation. And if you have unprotected intercourse it has the same effect for her as if she used the soap directly. Not all women are aware of this or are not brave enough to explain to their partner. Doctors also recommend cleansing only with warm water.

You may also perform your cleansing ritual together and talk about what like on each other. What I mean is you may help clean or shave each other, whatever you both like. Just ask for it in a nice way and play and serve each other for a little while. I really recommend this it’s good fun.

I found these topics very interesting. Think of it like a little inspiration because it’s very personal and each one of us has to find our own way that fits perfectly.

And if you feel any kind of emotion while reading I’m very happy. Wishing you adventures on your journey!

Relationships are about finding the balance between two people; and, in the end, also the balance inside each of us. That’s why we’re meeting opposite poles of ourselves, and discovering new aspects of our own characters. Because that’s the learning required to walk the path to greater harmony.

A common combination is a very quiet person and an easily explosive partner. Why? Because they are the teachers of each other. The quiet, more passive person shows the receptive and feminine quality to the partner. And visa versa. It’s probable that the bigger the distance between two people’s differences the more difficult it is to maintain harmony and peace in that relationship. But for many people they’re naturally tempted into this kind of relationship.

This is just an example, but every relationship scenario is always a learning experience and may also cause beautiful healing, too. I believe that we can become enlightened through conscious relationships.

As a person slowly balances himself, he will naturally meet more balanced people. Then he will probably look back at crazy arguments of the past and shake his head in disbelief.

But, of course, we have to fall off the bike many times before we become a good rider. And we’ll never regret those falls because now we can enjoy the pleasure of riding fast when we want, or simply slowing down if we feel like it.